r/relationship_advice
How much gets removed or deleted, when it is active, and who posts most
In a sample of the most recent 300 posts and 300 comments in r/relationship_advice, 74% of posts and 5% of comments were removed by moderators or Reddit, and about 1% were deleted by their authors. Overall, roughly 39% of what gets posted here is taken down by someone other than the author.
300 posts · 300 comments sampled (26 Aug 2026 → 26 Aug 2026)
Moderation in r/relationship_advice
- removed by mods167 (56%)
- removed by Reddit / spam filters54 (18%)
- deleted by author4 (1%)
- still up75 (25%)
Comments: 5% of the last 300 were removed, and 0% deleted by their authors. Comment removals do not say who acted, so they are not split further.
When r/relationship_advice is active (UTC)
Common words in r/relationship_advice
Top contributors
- u/AttitudeOk536321 (0p / 21c)
- u/tomanythingstrm18 (2p / 16c)
- u/throwRAbitterbetch11 (1p / 10c)
- u/AutoModerator10 (0p / 10c)
- u/ThrowRA140822027 (6p / 1c)
- u/tofuwithsoya7 (1p / 6c)
- u/darklingdawns5 (0p / 5c)
- u/StoicSkateMountain5 (1p / 4c)
- u/torres_25 (0p / 5c)
- u/Automatic-Cause14844 (1p / 3c)
- u/Fun-Commissions4 (0p / 4c)
- u/ProofOk16524 (4p / 0c)
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Top posts (sampled)
- 118M & 17F
- 137F with 39F, 10yrs, I’m not sexually attracted to my partner anymore and wondering if this is temporary or an indicator that the relationship is over? (Long post)
- 1My (23F) boyfriend (25M) is going through a hard time, how can I help him?
- 1Myself 32M and my fiancée 35F are experiencing some difficulties due to alterations in our sexual dynamic. I am afraid I have hurt her. I am wondering on the best path to mend things?
- 1'21M' can we rebuild a realtionship from such stage and plz give me your advice and course of action. I really need that . SHe was '19F' give you advice and experience.
- 1How do i 31F safely break up with my boyfriend 28M of 5 years? (Without fear of retaliation)
- 1My boyfriend (31m) doesn’t let me (26f) hangout with my friends unless he comes with.
- 128F — My boyfriend 29M is my first sexual partner, but I've decided I don't want intimacy again until marriage. Has anyone experienced this?
- 1AIO Is he playing with me 27M 25F
- 1My (29F) boyfriend (28M) doesn't miss me when I'm away, is not jealous and passive and it makes me insecure. Are we cooked?
Based on the last 300 posts and 300 comments, not the subreddit's full history. Times are UTC.