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I realize I am late to the game here but this is what I do when my workout days and period days line up: My usual: If cramps are really bad I just walk for 20+ minutes before my weightlifting. Sometimes I throw in a 20 minute yoga session before and after and that really helps. …
Yeah I know what you mean, that has happened to me, except I never felt muscular enough (I am a short woman). So even though I had great stats I would still look at myself and I always looked either too small or too big/flabby, but never muscular enough. All I can say is I had t…
I've responded to these people, that I found my way in life once I started micro-dosing meth and taking random shits in public spaces to make me feel "alive and a little naughty" or something crazy and weird like that. Works every time. I used to try to politely leave the situat…
When people immediately assume I am trying to lose weight to "look good" and not because of health issues. I am 5'2 and weight 170lbs due to health problems and depressive eating. I used to weight 130-135, mostly muscle before my health took a turn and hormones went batshit alo…
Have you tried pointing a fan towards your head and body? My a/c broke and if it wasn't for my fan pointed directly at me and another one circulating the air, I would never be able to fall asleep because it is so dang hot out. It didn't make everything perfect, but it has helpe…
This is probably my favorite and the best idea. There is also a lot of elderly people looking for work and working in an office instead of a Home Depot lifting paint cans is a dream job. I only say this because the lady who works in the paint section at my Home Depot is 82 and sh…
I would first scrub it (dry) with a soft bristle brush. To start loosening up the dirt and other crap that is stuck in it/on it. Then I would mix and spray on it equal parts hydrogen peroxide and warm water. Let that soit for 10 to 15 minutes (I wouldn't do longer then that) and…
This is not my response. I Googled your question and these were the answers it came up with. I hope any of these help: # 1. The drain pump filter is full of sludge Most front-load washers have a small access panel near the bottom front. Behind it is a drain pump filter that cat…
Those look like sweat stains. Depending on the material you want to be very careful. Google "How to get yellow sweat stains out of shirt" and it will give you multiple fixes. I personally do the **Baking Soda and Hydrogen Peroxide Paste,** but I have only done this on cotton t…
Go to a truck stop. Pay for a shower session (some have them like Loves and stuff), and rinse it off in the shower. Buy disinfectant wipes for the rest and wipes them down. Accidents like this happen and truck stops are the best places to get supplies to clean this crap off.
It does not look like trash to some people. It is an aesthetic that some people like especially if they are going for cozy, vintage, etc. If you do not like it that is understandable. I would just replace the doorknobs with ones that do appeal to you.
It really depends on the material of the rug and if the rug is washing machine friendly. If you are not sure, then take the rug outside, washing it with dawn dishsoap (gently, do not scrub hard) and rinse off with cold water (i use a hose). Then hang it over a fence, balcony, et…
It could be either damage to your granite sealer or hard water damage. You can try cleaning it with a granite safe cleaner, and then re-sealing a small part of it to see if the color goes back to normal. This would give you a better idea of what the issue could be. If you are …
Opening up windows replaces stale indoor air with fresh outdoor air, helps get rid of smells that stick around (like pet, human BO, etc) and it keeps your home ventilated so you do not accumulate too much moisture since poorly ventilated homes do end up getting mold and mildew. I…
The tip of your tongue does look slightly swollen, but I would wait on an actual Dr to check you out before jumping to any assumptions. Also, I would brush your tongue way more. That is a build up of crap on your tongue and that contributes to bad breath, & sickness.
Asking questions back yes, and depends on the flirting. I love some good back and forth sass which I consider flirting, but the moment you start doing sexual inendos I am turned off.
Why doesn't she shower before sexy time? That is usually what me and my partner do, this way there is no sweat or anything down there to ruin the mood. Personally, I would at least try that and if she refuses to shower before sexy time, every time then I would cut ties. I would …
These people always live better than I do. Queen sized bed? \*me side eyeing my full\*, matching plates and cups? \*me side eyeing my mismatch of plates & cups\*, and a down pillow?! I need to start going onto these forums and begging haha
I dont disagree on the unprofessional part. I was just saying if you are used to using a term often, you get it stuck in your head and it becomes second nature. This is not me defending the term, nor the use of it. This is just me saying that they are probably so used to saying i…
Habla, was originally started within the Latin community to describe a certain way of speaking and has since spread to other countries so it would be new to America (I am assuming OP is in America, but I understand that I shouldn't assume where someone is). Of course there are …
This is a hard one because you are allowed to feel targeted by this phrase/term. Just because it may not have been meant in a hurtful/deragotory way, doesn't mean that it didn't come off that way or feel that way. Have you spoken to your other coworkers about this to see how th…
You guys handled it all so well. Good on you as a group recognizing sexist and (most likely) transphobic behavior and deciding as a whole that this isn't the kind of energy you want brought to the group. I am a woman and have been playing DND for decades. I have dealt with all k…
This and to add: Do you have time to excercise the dog as well? I don't mean running around the backyard, but actually excercising with the dog and training it? It is a puppy and puppies are a ton of work. Excess energy can also amp up behavioral issues. And a rat terrier breed …
Ahh thank you for pointing that out I clearly missed that part.
Yeah he should have just listened to her, but instead he got really petty/aggro and ruined what could still have been a good date since it isnt like the night was not salvageable by this point. Awkward sure, but it doesnt sound like it was ruined. He really dropped the ball and I…
Aaaahhhhh ok, I 100% misunderstood that part. I appreciate you explainging that to me.
I was on this persons side up until the point where he had you guys sit on either side of the kid and his parents. Let me say that the parents should have moved the kid and a mental disability is not a good reason to let their kid do whatever he wants, however, at the point wher…
First let me start off by saying the age gap isn't bad. 29 and 35 isn't bad. 21 & 35 regardless of gender is a little gross. 2nd, I can understand why your feelings were hurt. I will say that it threw me off when he said, "could have been worse" because I also was thinking "wha…
I do not think you are overreacting by feeling this way. I have both cats and dogs and I feel both are a lot of work. I trained both my cats and dogs to sit, stay, everyone has been recall trained etc. I walk both of my cats and dogs as well as play with them both. However, dogs …
Good on you guys for talking it out. I hope it works out for you guys :) LIfe is one big learning experience so we are always figuring things out/learning things as we go haha Hopefully she will get less weird as time goes on.
Woof, friend, just wow. That just got worse and worse as I read on. I am glad you are speaking up for yourself, but your BF should also say something. Confrontational or not, when it comes to you and your relationship, he needs to stand up for you and your relationship. I do not…
I can understand that nagging feeling in your head, and obviously there could be a bunch of different scenarios that could have played out. Dramatic, crazy, Soap Opera scenarios, but if I had my 2 cents I would say it is just coincedence. DNA is insane and not very unique in ter…
I mean it isnt wrong for you not to be into it, to each their own, but on the same note it isnt cool to judge people for what they like because again, to each their own. Personally I am not into something that big, but what do I care since I am not looking for people into that s…
Personally, I think this is unfair as well as unreasonable. You two are together and you both share a child. I could understand if he still had payments left on this car and he wanted you to cover the remainder while he leases another car, but to pay your husband for a car that i…
I understand that this isnt going to be easy at all. You clearly care about this person, and seem like you really wanted this to workout. Something I have done in past breakups is, I let my cloests friends know that I am about to need them because I am about to go through a hard…
Yeah this is not healthy at all, for either of you. He does not sound like he is keeping up with therapy & medication which is extremely important for people with BPD. Please leave for your own mental health as well as his own. He isnt ready for a relationship and you should no…
Be careful this is how scammers get you too. Just block and move on.
I think you need to break up and stay broken up my friend. The approach is you tell him this relationship is no longer working for you and you stay strong in not getting back together with him. The lying, hiding, pretending, projecting, etc sounds exhausting and your time is be…
Just going off your comment to the other User, I would say your partner was being selfish/inconsiderate, but you should have also stated after you ate the first slice and left, to please leave you some leftover wings and pizza slices. I can see both sides since no one is a mind…
100%. I hope you find the answers/perspectives you were looking for.
You hit the nail on the head yourself "Am I overreacting for feeling like *this isn’t really about openness or honesty, but about avoiding accountability while keeping both relationships*?" An open relationship first has a foundation of trust, communication and boundaries. None…
Enjoy & have fun! That does sound nice :)
It is perfectly reasonable to not trust him to try anything, but that means you have to trust her to shut down whatever this man tries to do. Which I realize can be hard for anyone. Do you trust her (knowing her as a friend for 10yrs prior to dating) that she as a person, would …
There are 100s of things you can make. Just google "Vegan" dishes since they automatically don't contain dairy at all, and stick to things without gluten which is just a protein found in grains (like wheat, barley, etc). I make a sweet potato chilli for my potlucks and that is v…
Are you afraid of her cheating on you with said ex or something? I can understand that it would make you feel a bit uncomfortable since you don't fully know their relationship (and people do cheat), but maybe talk it out with her first before setting down any hard lines? I am b…
I mean it sounds like he has feelings for you, but if he hasn't contacted you about it and he hasn't sent you any letters, this may just be a way for him to let out his feelings without making you uncomfortable because he knows you do not recipricate those feelings. It is like wh…
I dont assume they are men. Women can also be sexist creepers who can't keep their eyes on themselves. I did not imply gender at all. Interesting of you to assume my own assumptions.
He is not your "friend" and you are not his therapist. I have had friends where I lean on them 100% and vice versa because we all go through things at different times. Friendship means understanding that sometimes people need time to deal with their stuff. My best friend of 20yr…
You are NOR. You apologized for the tone (i get it Ive been there myself and good on you for recognizing that and taking accountability for it), but fudge apologizing for the message. If he wants to be butt hurt about it then he can be butthurt about it. You are here to lead a t…
NOR you were a gentleman multiple times when you turned her down and she decided to be a sexual harrassing creeper. As a woman, I appreciate that you called her out. I see enough women get away with sexual harrasement and equality/feminsim means that no one has the right to anyon…
You are NOR and someone is being a sexist creeper. I would push back and say that if the person is incapable of staring at your breasts then maybe it is time for a sexual harrasment meeting. Especially since you have been wearing the same 5 outfits for the past 2yrs +. I would u…
He is being lazy. My partner and I work the same amount of hours usually, but his commute is over an hour and mine is about 15 minutes. I am the main cook (5 days a week) but he cooks at least 2x a week to give me a break. He does dishes and I do laundry, mopping and general vac…
You are a smart, smart person. If more people had your mindset, then less people would be in overwhelming debt. Not only did you do the right thing, but you have saved yourself future pain. The market is shit right now on top of everything. I am a person who lives within my mea…
Are you a person who is able to be in a relationship with an ace? That can be a lot to handle for some people because some people want to feel sexually "wanted", if that makes sense. This coupled with the fact that he has a few fetishes you can not see yourself participating in, …
I can understand you feeling a bit inadequate about the situation. You are in a tough spot, but I personally do not think you have anything to worry about. If you guys lived together and he was choosing holding, humping, etc the pillow over you then I would have very different …
As a person who is friends with some of my exes, I do not think he is at the stage where he can be friends with you. Ask him if you two can take a few months or so to heal and get over each other (no talking to each other and minimal contact since you two do work together), and …
Though I understand you wanting to try new things, pursue new feelings, and want to try things out now that you feel more comfortable in your skin, you were not a kind partner to this person and you should break up. The way you went about it was an asshole move and I think you sh…
Oh I would be upset too, but I would concentrate on getting paid. You don't work for free and whether you have to go directly to him, her or put them on blast, you do what you gotta do to get your money. Just know this may (or may not) be the end of the friendship, but honestly?…
NOR-he is fishing. I am also a person who uses apps to find friends, but my partner is aware of me using them and I include both genders since I want to cast a wide net for a better chance of finding people who match my energy friendship wise. Never flirting, nothing fishy, and m…
Personally the last part of her message saying, *"Idk if there is more on the horizon"* would be enough for me to no longer pursue her. I am also a reserved woman, but I know what I want, how I want it and when I want it. What you described I would really like and it would be cle…
I don't think you are overreacting, she is definetly (to me) fetishizing Jewish men. It sounds really really weird, again to me. I would ignore her and let her know that you no longer wish to talk to her about this. That is what I did when my friend was fetishizing black men. I …
Have you tried talking to her about any of this? I mean if you are at the point where you want to cut off the friendship, you should probably at least let her know that and why so she doesn't wonder why you left. This way there are no doubts about why you decided to end the frien…
That really sucks that they are both going through this, but they can at least adopt. And there are literally tons of children with siblings out there who would prefer to get adopted together, but get seperated instead since it is very rare for couples to want to adopt more then …
 The lion, the witch and the audacity of this B\*\*\*h
 " I can pay you if you want, but i'd rather a writer that *enjoys* my company"
This is adorable haha Ive seen ones like this with the woman and her best friend and these always make my heart feel warm and smile.
I wouldn't invite them over anymore (with their kids). If you guys enjoy hanging out, by all means keep doing it, but don't do it when they have to involve their kids. Ask them to get a sitter and if they ask why you can either tell them the truth (which would either strain or en…
Naw this is gross. My kitchen only looks like this for about an hour after my husband is done cooking something. After we eat and the food settles we tag team the kitchen, since we both cook regularly. I can understand it looking like this right after cooking, and maybe 30 minut…
I dont think you are overreacting. Marriage is a give and take and it sounds like you are trying to give all you can to run the household while he works to provide income. It doesnt sound like he is holding up his end very well though, do you think he is depressed and self sabat…
Your friend sounds unhinged & you do sound entitled by page 3. I have no issue with them explaining to you that it is out of the way. I have no issue with them asserting that they prefer not to add to their commute time instead of splitting gas. I thought it was generous to offer…
Have you tried just talking to her about this? My partner is a lot like your GF in the sense that he wants to wander around the store and multiple stores and look down every aisle. I prefer an in and out approach. So on days where I am in a rush/don't feel like it I let him kno…
I think she should take the cat to the vet. Poops aren't supposed to smell that bad and if they do it could be due to a bacterial infection, gut biome is off, the food she is eating isn't right for her, etc. I too would ask her to move the litterbox into her room. If the cat se…
 Oh honey nnnooooooo
I don't understand nor want to talk about sportsball either, but if it's between that and this guy I think I would rather learn how many points a goal in basketball is or why free throwing in football isn't more prominent.
What always make me laugh at this is there is also a "female loneliness crisis" but it never gets talked about haha Buddy we are also lonely, but you know what we try to do? Make new friends, try and build a small community with each other, join a club, start a hobby, etc. We …
 I agree with the statement, but disagree with the delivery of the statement lol
I think you should just talk to him and explain to him what you explained to us on Reddit. Just say (something along the lines of), "Hey I know this is awkward, but it kind of weirded me out when you framed going out to dinner as a date. I appreciate your friendship, but that i…
Why dont you just tell her that you would rather not talk about it? Just say you would prefer not to discuss politics during your haircuts and rather keep it light. My hairdresser wouldnt stop talking about his divorce and this is what I did and I still see him years after. Just…
Hmmm that kind of sucks. I know i personally would feel vulnerable after that kind of flirting and then being ghosted. before i was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt, but after your update and the new information you provided I dont know if I would be into him anymore.…
Aw what the heck, it sounds like you guys were having a cute and sexually charged convo. I def think you guys were flirting, in a cute way. I mean you should def chat with other people, you guys aren't exclusive and who knows why he stopped chatting. Maybe in that moment he dr…
Is this a mating dance? I feel like i've seen this on animal planet but can't be sure.
NTA, they could have met after work and gossiped, they could have texted each other from their personal phones and gossiped, there are so many different ways they could have been buttheads about this. Yet they decided, knowing the company policy, to do it on Teams which is monito…
This is a biohazard OP. This child needs therapy to find out why he has a fixation on playing with his own poop. This kid needs help, and a therapist who specializes with spoecial needs kids can determine what is going on with his behavior. ignore the other commentors OP. No on…
When I worked retail I had a customer who came in with his family (wife and three kids, oldest looked about 12). I helped them and they went on their merry way. Next effing day this piece of human slime comes back with his oldest son (probably under the guise of shopping for him…
I just eye rolled reading your exchange OP (at him, not you). I think he has a innocence kink, which is fine if all parties are consenting to it and aware of it. He is just trying to push you to act like a little kid, and if age play isnt your thing I think you should nope out …
Autism is not an excuse to be a creep. & normally autistic men are not taught or conditioned to not be creepy, like autistic women are. You can be autistic and not be a sexual harrasser. Say something and do somethign about this. No one has a right to you or your body except for…
There is a reason whenever you hear on the news about someone raping a kid, grooming a kid, or shit like that their neighbors, friends and family always go, "But he was such a family man/but he was such a good teacher/but he is such a nice man/but he is etc". You can switch the g…
I think games and prizes go hand in hand. I can understand why your brain would jump to that assumption, especially if you were tired and everything was just thrown at you.
If this is a repeating cycle then I would tell her you are no longer interested in this one way friendhsip. You can also ghost if you are more comfortable with that, I personally just prefer letting people know why I am cutting them out of my life so they dont sit their wondering…
Yeah wtf do these people expect? For OP to tell her friend to eff off or something? Surrounded by friends and family? To not help the person she cares about because you know, they are friends? Youre fine OP. You were being an amazing & supportive friend.
Nothing was "wrong" with you OP. You came to celebrate your friends sons 1st birthday. You worked only a few hours prior. You didnt know you would be at "job 2" at this point. You were tired and looking for a good time and to support your friend in this wonderful celebration. Y…
This sounds like really poor planning and communication on her part. I dont know if I would have ghosted her, but I understand if you no longer want to be friends with her. I would just explain to her exactly why you want to end the friendship, because ghosting just leaves peopl…
I know I dont know you OP but I will help you hide the body because F\*\*\* that person. The world would be a little better place without someone like that. And F\*\*\* your friend too. What a weak person, with no backbone or any thoughts of her own. Of course make them pay f…
 This person is a loser. And the only time I hear men say, "{insert culture/ethnicity here} women are hard to date, are men who have never dated anyone other then their own hand. Move on OP. You seem passionate, you love all different kinds of foods,…
It is up to you if you either want to wait for this to blow over or if you want to see someone else. If you like her as your therapist and understand that this was a mistake you can always just bluntly tell her that you would prefer it if you guys never talked/thought about this…
Between the r/niceguys page and this r/nicegirls page I realize that I would prefer to be single then to date. Maybe make more friends, spend more money on my hobbies, maybe Ill get another dog, cat and lizard. But dating? Naw. If this is what is out there I am good haha
Why don't you guys talk to him? & not in a nice polite way but a "wtf man" kind of way? Don't feel bad for confronting him, he is probably banking on you guys being too polite to say anything to him. Say something and if he doesn't fix his behavior shame him. Some people don't g…